#This shit is fucking stupid and I'm mad about it
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Also, as much as we like to pretend a good person will magically be able to intuit that prejudice is wrong--no, no you fucking can't.
Are you uncomfortable with that homeless man on the bus? That's probably because your mother or uncle or other beloved adult, who tied your shoelaces and made yummy dinners, was ALSO uncomfortable with homeless people.
If your parents and adults loved you as a kid, then you never had a reason to question them, no matter what they said. That's a great thing! You had trustworthy people in your life! But they taught you bad shit, too (hopefully by accident), so you're accidentally repeating it.
YOU WILL NOT GET ANYWHERE BY BEING MAD AT YOURSELF THAT YOU DIDN'T CATCH THIS OR HAVEN'T FIXED IT YET.
So don't do that.
No one can tell what you're thinking until you do something. If you're not sneering and leaning away, or starting a scene? No one knows or cares. Thoughtcrime isn't a thing. You're not in trouble for, and let me emphasize this here, *believing the things you were taught as a kid*.
What you DO need to do is say this to yourself: "Hunh, I feel really uncomfortable for a shitty reason. I was taught this as a kid, and the people who taught me that probably wanted to keep me safe. They were wrong, and this person ISN'T dangerous, but my mom thinks ABBA is fashionable and my dad sometimes wears bell bottoms. Sometimes my family is dumb, so I'm going to sit back and enjoy my bus ride instead of taking Mr. Bell Bottoms entirely seriously."
And then sit back and relax.
Sometimes people teach us stupid shit. Sometimes it's bigoted shit. But you don't need to freak out about you or them being secretly evil; just saying 'wow, that's dumb, I'm ignoring it' will get you a lot farther here, because odds are, that really is all that happened. Think it through, then relax. That's all you need to do here.
Haven't figured out a politic way to word this but before saying someone/thing "makes you uncomfortable" please ask yourself this important question: is it any of your fucking business
#reblog#Discomfort#Social justice#How to handle bad thoughts#Im on mobile so you'll have to bean soup this one yourselves#This is for the most common issue#But the technique works#Don't panic fix the problem
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So I've been trying to buy pants and it reminded me that everything is sized so small and I got angry again because




BEHOLD: AN OBESE PERSON
#Body image#Weight cw#Body image cw#ED tw#I edited my tattoos out lol#But COME ON#How does anyone with any amount of Body fat find clothes??#HOW DO ACTUAL FAT PEOPLE FIND CLOTHES#This shit is fucking stupid and I'm mad about it#BMI means nothing by the way its fucking useless#THIS BODY SHOULD NOT BE THE BIGGEST IN YOUR STORE
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so i'm really normal about @spinecurlingmice's magikink au and think about it a regular amount. happy fingers in his ass sunday btw <3
#martzipan#pseudosexual moment#suggestive#i'm so obsessed with this au it feels so classic fandom to me in vibe#hence. the moe eyes and heavy shapes#and the glitter. i had fun glittering them#cooked this one for a couple weeks. hooray for yaoi !!!#also fuck doing clean lineart that shit took so long oh my god. i was gonna lose my mind#props to artists who think about line weight all the time bc UGHHHH. UGHHHHH#i feel like this is missing something but if i did anything more to it it'd feel like too much. i think i'm a bit mad at the colors. oh wel#anyways. i'm done complaining please enjoy my funny picture#this stupid little bunny boy.... obsessed with him he's so funny
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Odypen definitely and equivalently adore each other BUT I weirdly can't see them as the type to actually say "I Love you".
They still definitely vocalize their love for each other but it's more so in "My Joy", and "Extraordinary Woman", "Strange Woman/Man", etc. And very cheesy lines (both say some cheesy shit in the Odyssey, and he definitely does in the Iliad as well. "Joy like a drowning sailor seeing land" bit???)
I could see "I adore you" but even then, that's probably during very specific moments but the actual "I love you"??? I just typed it just now for fic shit and... It weirdly just didn't feel right and I don't know why. 😅
Idk maybe it's kind of because I see them as over the top in ways, they love wordplay and riddles and I think they'd almost think "...That's not good enough >:( " about it??? I don't know???😂
#I wrote this last night. I'll do the asks I got later. don't worry! :D#I am the cheese god remember?😅#I think these two would try to “out-cheese” each other and whoever is left speechless first loses#“I would forget my own name before I would ever forget you” bullshit. CHEESY#And yes. “I sleep in our nest with you or outside on the dirt” stupidity >:D#I plan for Odysseus as a beggar to ask why she waits so long. As he's been gone a longer amount of time than the time they had together#(Simply asking as reassurance. He knows his answer. Calypso asked him. but what about Penelope?) but she gets mad at the#“Beggar” and pities him as he must be telling the truth about having a miserable life if he never got the chance to know such devotion#How what they have could never be sullied by#something as trivial as distance and years. How the years with him were the best in her life. Only made better by their son.#'My dear Joy made songs and poems about love a reality as that was simply the life we shared. Even separated our 'song' will always echo#no matter how long it's been. I'LL make sure it always does. And I know he's doing the same... That strange man used to say that#even if he died his corpse would drag itself back to us before he'd ever give up.'#...I'm not one for 'odyssey zombie au' but when I first heard it yeah. :'D Came up with this back then#“His eyes as hard as flint or horn-” Bullshit! The sad lil fuck is hiding sobs with coughs and telling her to keep away for fear of her#catching whatever “illness” he has. The nice thing about being disguised as old means sickly old man works.#...#I'm noticing that Odysseus has a lot of silly oneliners while I write Penelope with a shit ton of set up :'D#They are so silly and I love them so much#...I wrote a lot :'D#Mad rambles#shot by odysseus#my headcanons#odypen#yahoo!!!#sometimes I wonder if I should tag this with more things but I don't want to taint the regular tags with my bullshit :'D I KNOW I'm insane
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its soooo awesome how i get to read tags like this every other day bc my most popular post made its way into beatles rpf tumblr and they don't have the brain and foresight to understand that i (OP) don't think their headcanons about which beatle is fucking which is funny and quirky and in fact i think its pretty fucking gross
#i just want them all to shut upppp holy shit how can you happily and proudly talk about your stupid rpf on someone else's post#i have to read that shit :sob#like awesome its part of beetles fucking each other tumblr lore now#and like i can delete it but that just means they still get to talk about beatles fucking each other on MY post all day long#i just dont know about it anymore#it PISSES ME OFFFFFFFF#is there a way to delete a post so it just disappears and all reblogs disappear bc i genuinely dont want it on this website anymore#like genuinely it makes me mad. i hate rpf i think its fucking weird as hell#i'm yucking their yum i dont care. rpf is weird and creepy#and making the beatles yaoi is strange and wrong and you're wrong for doing it.#i just lost a match of OW pretty badly so i'm in a TERRIBLE mood#the life and times of brows
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Haruta v Henderson
(comfort actors. will watch anything if they're in it actors. production team couldnt get rid of them actors.)
#sentai#power rangers#ft metal heros too lmao#i did it i drew the self indulgent art that only i was asking for <3 <3 <3#cannot believe that my first piece of mad gallant fan art includes fucking NORG OPERATION OVERDRIVE#ryu + boom danger boys getting up to shenanigans boys doing stupid shit boys#phineas is eating shogi pieces kuroda is NOT happy about it#mick + shishinoshin lion boys#that is all. thank you for your time#i'm putting off finishing sun vulcan cAN YOU TELL#5 EPISODES LEFT. I DONT WANT IT TO END.#2024 art tag
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i don't think i'll ever get over how people treat kids that aren't good in school as worthless no matter what. "oh it can't be that bad" my guy idk how to tell you this but the last time i went to a normal high school the principal called me into his office to brag about how he failed me in all of my classes before the semester was even finished & i should quit while i'm ahead cuz i'm too stupid ("officially" diagnosed as such by a school counselor & a psychiatrist!!) to succeed. & this is considered normal
#''poor teachers!!'' yeah well at least they can fucking quit & go work somewhere else#''okay but times are different than when you went to school in the 1970's'' this was 2016 my guy. shut the fuck up#''well maybe you were a violent & severely misbehaving kid!'' i wasn't. i have ADHD & severe anxiety disorder & depression#my biggest crime was being too exhausted & dopamine deprived to do my homework#my dad talks about how he was treated in school & i'm like damn dude i went through the same exact shit#how is it that a majority of teachers & principals are still abusive power-tripping pieces of shit 60 years later#why haven't things changed#well actually the answer is simple & it's because they want disabled people to disappear#& if abled students that simply disagree with the way things are done get caught in the crossfire then that is acceptable#because anyone not fit to make billionaires a billion more dollars should just die!#anyways here are my original tags from that gravity falls post i just reblogged:#I know this is supposed to be an appreciation post but like. ''for being the ''dumb one'' he's surprisingly rational.'' seriously??#as ''the dumb'' but ''surprisingly rational'' one of my family this is THEE biggest misunderstanding & it drives me up the fucking wall#just because a person struggles in one area doesn't mean they're stupid & should be an irrational dumb dumb idiot baby holy fuckkk#sorry to OP but even when people try to ''appreciate'' stuff like this they can't help but throw in insults#simply because they genuinely believe that ''even though you're stupid you SURPRISINGLY act competent sometimes'' is a compliment#I'm less mad about this & more sad that this kind of shit is still so prevalent in 2024#both Stanley & Stanford are smart & competent & rational#they just show it in different ways & exceed in different (sometimes overlapping) subjects#this is normal for human beings but the big societal scam is that if you don't do it in the way Ford does then you're stupid & a failure#& being surprised that Stan is also smart & competent in his own ways is the biggest sing that you fucking fell for it dude#btw before i get @ ed for this. i WAS that kid#i was so much that kid the school actually diagnosed me with stupid & spiteful & i was told to quit while i was ahead (they failed me befor#obviously this is very personal for me but also i don't think people realize the language they use is on purpose & it's used specifically t#& it's still happening right now & that just. makes me wanna cry honestly#like why are people still surprised that people can specialize in something despite bad grades in school#you know. the thing we all know is literally rigged to either put you in jail or in a factory to make billionaires more money.#man sorry for the rant the original spirit of the post is super correct but like fuck HS grade-centric judging of people's entire character#Stan being able to defeat Bill is just not at all surprising if you were him or knew/know someone like him#or really paid any attention at all to the show while watching it
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Ok I can't not talk about this for any longer.
What the FUCK is up with Blue Lock chapter 156???? you know the one where Bastard is doing the obstacle course? Please look closely

What the fuck is all of that 😭😭 First of all, where in the actual fuck does it all fit in the building???? based on the fucking size of this shit it takes up like a third of the entire Blue Lock complex and for what reason?? also why does everything suddenly look like the manga takes place in the year 2723??
Also, why did they have to make this room so needlessly huge, like? Why is the ceiling 60 meters tall just for them to run on the ground and then up a lil??


And don't even get me started on this fucking shit.

Like are you actually for fucking real telling me they have discovered how to levitate objects in the BL universe and NO ONE cares?? look at the first panel again. An entire walkway is just suspended in the air on NOTHING?? Like the micro-translators were already pretty crazy but THIS is some fucking Star Wars, Blade Runner, The Jetsons type shit like???

and what would happen to Igaguri if he fell off here (the ground is like 5 stories below)? WOULD HE JUST DIE???

And how many tens of millions of dollars did it cost to build this futuristic ass obstacle course with fucking invisible screens and levitating platforms that was just COMPLETELY unused before this one tiny part of the blue lock players came here
No fucking wonder this institution is going bankrupt like holy shit.
And no one said anything about this obstacle course in character too like hello? is this normal to you????? I can not fucking believe we got this one absolutely insane, bizzare, world-breaking chapter and then just moved on like nothing happened 😭😭
#and we moved on because stupid ass kaiser showed up with his sexy rizz and everyone collectively forgot about everything else ig#i'm fucking going crazy#i reread this whole arc because I was looking for a specific kaiser panel for meme purposes but holy shit I can't look at this chapter#anymore without feeling insane#okay i'm done#anyway lore dump in post tags time because no one reads these#I'm so mad the weather is still cold and I can't take my motorcycle out for the season I'm gonna cry#btw if I ever disappear for a long time assume I've been involved in a gruesome motorcycle accident#and my mangled body is lying in some ditch somewhere and I went out in an epic blaze of glory#anyway xoxo @ u all#uhh what else#blue lock#mine
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IDW1 must take place on an alternate Earth where no one has ever heard of ACAB and everyone wears "thin blue line" merchandise because there's literally no other way that a single Autobot killing a USAmerican cop in self defense would be such worldwide news that even Mexican journalists would go "OMG???? You like, killed a cop?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?" and it wasn't even framed as like, "you killed a human," the phrasing every time any character talked about it was very specifically "he killed a cop".
The cop was also threatening to shoot a group of surrendering/not-attacking/injured Autobots btw which is just the icing on the cake honestly lmao
#yeah i still think about how that plot point's handling in phase 2 was fucking dumb#you can't convince me that if a usamerican cop got shot by an alien people wouldn't be making memes about it#ppl would be making memes like 'you know a pig is a pig because he'll even shoot alien robots when they're surrendering'#i'm also mad bc the gun that that cop had was a replica of cybertronian guns that meg spread among earth's populace#and what's worse is spike and this other guy literally HEARD M EXPLAIN HIS EVIL PLAN ABOUT THIS#but somehow in phase 2 literally no one ever brings it up ever again#like not even spike brings up the whole 'yeah M had mind controlling guns that he did specifically to destabilize the population'#he was just like 'nah that autobot shot a cop the autobots are evil now'#but like. i wanna make the earth ac/ab memes so badly lmao#you know that ppl would be making 'officer down' jokes about some cop getting killed by an alien robot#don't try to tell me that it's bc they're alien robots people would suddenly support the US#ppl literally make 9/11 jokes bc they hate the US that much don't even try to tell me earth would suddenly unite over a usamerican cop#getting shot on the job no less#and this is also a story written by barber who's literally the ac/ab writer that gave OP shit for being a cop so like#it's honestly so baffling. like was he trying to make a point about police brutality#bc jazz is black coded and he killed a cop so that's why barber wrote everyone hating jazz for it?#idek it's just another one of those stupid plot contrivances i hate and make me unable to take the rest of the story seriously
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officially on vacation (don't leave until wednesday, but no more work!) and i'm happy happy happy BUT it's also like. there is some stuff happening at work that i'm soooo nosy about and i don't want to have to wait until i come back to hear about it lmfao.
#just stupid drama#i really wanna know if the guy we all HATE finally quits or not#there was an. altercation.... at work the other day#the coworker he's been shit talking came in early and was like heyyyy can we talk?#and he tried to get out of it like 5 times lmfao#he was like oh our manager was going to set up a meeting in A FEW WEEKS....#and she was like oh we can just talk now!! i'm here and i'd love to speak to you :-)#he was like ummm i can't stay late!!! and she was like oh there's an hour left on your shift! we can talk right now! :-)#fucking hilarious. he did not want to be confronted and thought he could get out of it but she's kind of insane so that is not happening#and the thing is too he was literally MOMENTS before complaining to us that he didn't know why she was mad that he was talking about her#because he NEVER talked about her! and everyone was LYING!#and i was like dude. you're talking about her RIGHT NOW.#it's lowkey sad though bc he has two 'friends' at work that i know for a fact have gone to the manager and told him that they don't#want to work w him anymore and complained about his work performance#and apparently that somehow came out and he's convinced that the manager is lying about it. but he's not... lol.#so it's just so sad that no one is being honest with him#lmfao i understand though bc i personally have been honest with him and called him out (VERY GENTLY) and he gets sooo pissy about stuff#but like i'm not pretending to be his friend!#anyways i'm sooo nosy about it lmfaooooo#on instagram he blocked me and like all of our coworkers but two lmfao#but i know both of them hate him so idk why he didn't block them too#lmfao like literally everyyyyyyy single person i work with dislikes him#so yeah i'm hopeful that it's finally over lmfao#this is the same guy i posted about before who bullied my favorite coworker into leaving so.#yeah i really hope he's gone now
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if I see another post about "Steven's $1000 dinners" from someone with absolutely no clue how much Ghost Files costs to film I will probably start sending hate anons or something. you just don't have any idea how much it takes to make something because you have never paid for it and so you think it is worthless and the work everyone does on it is trash: say it with your whole chest.
#i'm so so so so so mad about this#thousands of us did not lose our jobs because of the stupid fucking ass shit pivot to video#for you lot to be like ooooooh you know what is worth nothing at all ever#THE MOST EXPENSIVE MEDIUM IMAGINABLE
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i hate reading philosophy omg. endless sentences of the author throwing around random words that probably only made sense to their own brain and then the insight of these "deep thoughts" is stuff like "people behave differently in different settings" or "people don't always act according to their own values" woooowww. and then there are "differing" perspectives on an issue and i'm sitting there reading those and thinking "but none of that negates the other??? it can both be true??????" oh and then also usually the issue is just that language is ambigous and it can be hard to put your thoughts into words.
#i'm reading a book that summarizes research on gender and my brain is goo#and sometimes i get genuinely mad bc often in class when we're talking about a topic i wonder where the hell women were in all of this#then i try to look it up and no one has really done any research on this#and as long as we dont know what half the population was experiencing i dont really give a shit about all this theoretical stuff tbh#someone wrote about how the physical sex is also culturally constructed and then argued this by stating that clothes and medical procedures#are different between the sexes????? ok but that's not what sex means imo?#like they are arguing that sex and gender shouldnt be differentiated but they do that bc they themselves STILL attach value/judgement to#biological sex#like....you can just not do that i think? X chromosomes = female and all that? there is no value attached to that?#yes of course “researches” in the past have said that females are inferior bc of their biology but can we maybe not completely disregard#biology bc of those idiots????#maybe i'm just too stupid idk i often tried but i really fucking hate this discourse philosophy shite it is so easily misunderstood#personal
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People who complain about ships getting more attention than others are too blinded by bitterness to actually make content for the ship they believe is getting sidelined, worsening the problem theyre whining about.
#youre only mad abt melj*y being put on the backburner because YOU cant write and cant draw and wont learn or make an effort#youre mad someone built a house bigger than yours but wont grab a brick? sad sad and stupid#i make tons of fanart for myself and two other bitches for ships no one gives a fuck abt and would NEVER pull the shit sk*vik and melj*ys do#“obviously its racism that keeps melj*y from being popular” as timeb*mb is the objectively biggest ship to come out of arcane#and j*nx literally almost kills ekk* directly and indirectly like FIVE TIMES but its impossible for m*l to have been malicious in melj*y OK#if m*l does bad things we cant like her because black women have to be PERFECT and FLAWLESS and moral beacons to deserve any attention#some of yall literally hate her more than you think j*yviks do because you cant see her as a character with complex or selfish motivations#shes the single richest person in a story about class warfare and actively colonizing a city and supporting oppression the entirety of s1#SHES NOT A PROTAGONIST THEN SHES LITERALLY AN OBSTACLES FOR THE THE MCS TO OVERCOME IN S1#she starts (not COMPLETES) a redemption arc in season 2 and taking that away from her is a bastardization of her character#she is untouchable until season two and that shift from selfish colonizer to empathetic leader IS her character#i'm going to start villainizing s1 m*l with love just to throw off the disproportionate woobifying she gets#bcuz liking j*nx who is also not a good person is fine but liking m*l and acknowledging her antagonism is misogynoir?#MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
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I'm technically most likely demiromantic (definitely demisexual) which is technically on the aro spectrum but I'm sooooo romance favorable that it almost doesn't feel like it counts????
I'm a huge romantic sap but I'm kind of funky with crushes. I have them and I get them but I'm very particular and I almost have... control over them???
Like when I start to feel the feelings™, I then start looking at a possible relationship through "logic lens".
"Compatible here, there, there too. Okay, we're not with that though, and I will not move on that so therefore it will not work. Alright, cool! Best friend! Best friend! Best friend!"
I can just shut off the feelings™ once I get the feeling it's not gonna work, especially if it's on something I will not change. If I have a feeling there's potential, I let feelings "grow".
#it's not like I'm not “flexible” but there's certain things I just know I can't do that with.#this might not make sense but it felt nice to type out :'D#Mad rambles#I've literally only had three crushes in my life :P#I've never had a “type”. and I don't understand that. Every single one of my crushes looked SOOO different from one another#even behaved differently too.#one of my crushes mentioned someone HE had a crush on and I had the sad. cried in the bathroom then immediately got going on a#“You're fucking fantastic! Go for it!” pep talk only for next monday he mentions it's probably not gonna happen 😅#one probably had a crush on me back and I kick myself often for not realizing it. (read my favorite book when I mentioned it#to him. snuck out of class to see my performance for the “sneak peak” for the school musical. got into trouble on my behalf. etc.) but I wa#DUMB. I once had an ADHD blurt out where I was super embarrassed so then he started doing more stupid shit than I did#to get the attention off me and got into trouble for it and then checked in on me later :'D And I didn't realize ANYTHIGN.#Oh well :P#...realize this is kind of how I plan to write my blorbos but they're shittier about it :P
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One day gonna start a GoFundMe to get this grown man out of my house so we can all live normally again
#posting this because he made me mad again#he can say all he wants about me but as soon as he says Hazel's perfectly healthy (she is NOT)#all self restraint is out the window.#like yes i spoil her with People Food sometimes but the key word is SOMETIMES and i dont fucking overfeed her#I'm not saying that I want her to develop a problem so he can fucking realize he's stupid as shit but like#words ain't gonna convince him#'back in the day being fat meant you were rich and taken care of' YEAH AND ??? WE'RE POOR AS FUCK. BITCH???#ALSO THAT'S A CAT. BEING OVERWEIGHT AS A SMALL ANIMAL IS SO FUCKING HARMFUL TO THEIR ORGANS!!!!!!!!!!!#not art#vent ish#tw animal abuse#// animal abuse#extremely extremely mild but genuinely he is going to hurt her.
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Gonna use this image any time someone says something low key sexist about Sable (ie "she's showing too much skin" regarding a fucking bathing suit 😭🤦)
I don't hear you complaining about Spirit 😭
#I swear to god some people in this community#just say ‘cover them up whore’ like a normal sexist does#also people who targeted the sables because of their bathing suit outfit and then others saying it’s fine to do that#because of what she’s wearing… do you not hear yourselves?!#purity culture will be the death of us all#and then when you play sable because you look and dress like her and then people say whoever plays her is a ‘gooner’#get off the fucking internet and talk to an actual alt woman#(this is low key a vague post about someone streaming with their friends and making fun of the sable that joined the three of them because#she had the bathing suit skin on and they were saying shit like ‘what a normal amount of clothing you have’ and the whole chat joined in.#it was the first game and I literally couldn’t watch them after that because it just made me so mad. YOU DON’T KNOW WHO’S BEHIND THE SCREEN#for all you know it’s just an alt woman who likes the outfit and your making fun of her because you think skin = sex = gooner which says a#hella lot about YOU more than the person playing her. if you know who I'm vauging about don't be a dick and harass them or send this to the#I was so mad that I just closed the stream and reblogged sable pictures because this hate against her so fucking insane.#I'm not trying to start drama. I'm just tired of this bullshit. I don't think they knew how insensitive stuff like what they were saying is#(even though they really should have; they're an adult and their words having meaning and they clearly have a young fanbase that looks up#them so they should be more careful about the shit they say) but I'm not here to try to fight anyone. I'm just furious about#constantly having to point out how fucking stupid this is and how it's rooted in sexism and purity culture.#when you say this shit you're not just 'making fun of a character'. you're indirectly making fun of alt women who dress less conservatively#you are indirectly shaming a group of people who already have to deal with prejudice outside of your 'jokes')#I love how misogyny and sexism is such a funny joke to these guys (no I don't)#I’m so fucking sick of how this community treats alt women#(speaking as an alt fashion afab person myself)#anyway. I'm just going to eat my dinner in silence.#nah who am I kidding I'm pulling up [popular 90s anime magical girl show staring 'rabbit' whose tag I don't want this to go to]#dead by daylight#dbd#rant#mint mumbles
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